by Joanna Poppink

Religion, myth, history and folklore collide mid December. They explode in twinkling lights, tinsel and carols in the night.

Spirits fly through stormy skies carrying gifts and lumps of coal. Lightning strikes an oak tree and creates mistletoe plus lots of surprising kisses.

We move in a frenzy of shopping, cooking and traveling. Or we flee the holidays in cars, planes or depression. We spend more time, money and energy than we can afford.

We party. We give to the poor and homeless. We give out of joy, and we give out of guilt and duty. We tell stories to our children, teaching and exciting them with the extravaganza of Christmas. We take time off work, eat too much and decorate everything.

It's as if Lord of Misrule, the King of Unreason, once again governs the Feast of Fools as he did in ancient Rome, turning everything in our familiar world, topsy turvy.

Following my curiosity and love of stories, I gathered some ancient European beliefs and customs of December. I wanted to see if we are more influenced by natural forces and rituals of the past than we realize. The bits and pieces of stories I found hold voices hushed over time. Listening to them now may give us a richer understanding of our holiday experience today.

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Joanna Poppink, M.F.C.C., licensed by the State of California in 1980, is a Marriage, Family, Child Counselor (License #15563). She has a private practice in Los Angeles where she works with adult individuals and couples. She specializes in working with people with eating disorders and with people who are trying to understand and help a loved on who has an eating disorder.

Contact Information:
10573 West Pico Blvd. Suite 20
Los Angeles, CA 90064
(310) 474-4165 phone
(310) 474-7248 fax

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